Kenapa hubungan kita gagal..?
WHY RELATIONSHIPS FAIL
AND
WHY SOMETIMES THEY SUCCEED
by NORASHIKIN BT ABD RAHMAN
Cost and benefits of marital Interactions
Positive act & negative act.
Marital satisfaction depends strongly on maximizing benefits and minimizing cost.
Problem between spouses
Failure to understand the reality of a relationships.
Involves some degree of compromise.
Perceiving love or at least approval as contingent on success.
Growing tendency on the part of one or both partners to perceive that their partner’s love and approval is linked to external success
External Pressures : The Effects Of Being in a Marginalized Relationship
Different ethnic group, the same gender and different in age.
Will reduce partner’s willingness to invest
Becoming more committed to their relationship.
The Consequences of a Failed Relationship
Actively-response consists of either ending the relationship as quickly as possible or working to improve it.
Passively-response involve simply waiting and hoping that thing will get better or waiting for thing to get worse.
p/s: ni pembentangan untuk kelas psikologi sosial hari ni,.sape-sape tak faham sila angkat tangan. sape yang nk dijelaskan dlm bm pun sila angkat tangan (komen)
arahan ini untuk orang lain BUKAN diulang sekali lagi BUKAN untuk budak kelas,.untuk budak kelas,korang kene diam2 n cakap faham je nnt..FAHAM..? ngeee~
~to hidayatul al-'adliah~
welcome dear,.i'm try my best.. but some of our friend said "like ustazah Asni" hehe..